"If you are silent about your pain, they'll kill you and say you enjoyed it."-Zora Neale Hurston This wasn't the first time he put his hands on me. The crazy thing is, i thought i knew myself. I always thought i was the "one and done" type of woman like Tina Turner's best friend in "What's Love Got to Do With It?" played by Vanessa Bell Calloway. Remember when she said, "You ain't got to hit me but once"? Chile, I really thought that was me. Nope. First time was December of 2